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Enjoying Ove

As a lover of books, I want to share some of the ones I’ve been moved by, been scared by, learned from, and/or enjoyed. Some grab my attention immediately, others make me nibble a bit before I take the bait, but once captivated, I often find it hard to leave the story at the end.
Fredrik Backman’s book, A Man Called Ove, had an interesting premise but I just wasn’t all too sure it was the type of book I’d care to read so when my book group chose it, I felt ambivalent but obligated to read it. Reluctantly I began to read and more reluctant was I to let go when I closed the book. I wanted to stay in the lives of the people who created the story. Far from characters, these were people I wanted to dislike, like, change and push and pull into the roles I thought they were to play. But this mish-mash of characters who didn’t appear to have anything in common, took on roles that I could not have foreseen. Good they weren’t guided by my hand.
I had to have another Backman fix, so picked up another of his books: Britt Marie Was Here.
Britt Marie is not always the most lovable character, but knowingly or not shares tidbits of wisdom that make me take note. One such tidbit had me grab a pencil (I hadn’t figured out taking pictures of things with my cell phone…maybe because at the time I didn’t have a cell phone) and jot down the insight shared by Britt Marie:
Sometimes it’s easier to go on living, not even knowing who you are, when at least you know precisely where you are while you go on not knowing.
Thanks Britt Marie and Fredrik Backman for reminding me that I can go on living without knowing who I am no matter where I am. Hey? Where is I be?

This entry was posted on December 20, 2018, in Reading.

More good books

One Book:

A striking book with an inauspicious premise, A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman, led me to immediately want to tag along after Ove as he got caught up in the lives of his neighbors. As he skulks around his neighborhood, I felt an urgency that he find something to bring him out of his curmudgeonly demeanor. This was the first book that was read by the members of a newly founded book group and would probably not have been one I would have read on my own.
Oh, how glad I was to have been a part of Ove’s world, small in a physical sense, but immense in the growth of the human spirit. There’s a feeling that the characters are not in a book but have entered my heart. I wanted so badly to make everything alright and for Ove to find comfort and happiness, not just with his neighbors but with himself. In the end, I found some comfort in my own heart.

Another book:

The blurbs that describe books on best sellers lists and online sites are often what attract me to a book or author, especially when either is unfamiliar. All the Light We Cannot See, despite its title which drew me to read the blurb, was not one that made me feel like reading the book. A blind girl during WWII seemed dark especially within Nazi-occupied France. Nevertheless, this was the book for this month, so I reluctantly opened to the first page. It was upside down, a bad start.
The jacket cover had been put on upside down, which led to some interesting stares when I read the book in a public area. I didn’t care. From the first page, my initial disinterest turned upside down, or maybe more apt, right side up.
The love between father and daughter, and the concurrent story of the young orphan, Werner, followed the impact that the occupation by German forces had upon each of them. It seems inevitable that this young blind girl, Marie-Laure, and Werner will cross paths. However the twists and turns that their paths follow didn’t follow the paths that I anticipated. The outcome I wanted for these people-for they no longer seemed to be just characters-did not unfold as I’d hoped, for now I was invested in their lives. The light shined but even now, I’m not sure I can.

Merciful travels with Anne Lamott

Thought 2: Reading

Anne Lamott’s books never fail to impress and inspire. Years ago I was given a copy of her book Bird by Bird, and being in the midst of my addiction to more costly highs, didn’t pick it up again for many more years. Not until I finished writing my own book did I dust it off and begin to read. Now bird by bird I’m pecking away and have been on a Lamott book binge. In true addict-fashion I want more. I want to devour her words and at the same time I don’t want them to end. I just traveled along on the journey she shares in Traveling Mercies.  Hi, my name is Sarah and I am a book addict.

Book addiction is a lesser of many evils that I have, or could, indulge in though it shares many of the same characteristics. No longer are addictive substances wreaking havoc in my mind, body and soul, so buying books instead of food or gas or even paying bills seems perfectly logical.

Logic is not my strong suit, yet I am drawn to Lamott’s words as they are measured out in a meandering kind of way. My mind follows along in curvaceous fashion often taking off on its own. Somehow I end up on the path where I can once again pick up on the words that she drops Hansel and Gretel fashion for me to gather as I attempt to find my way out of the wilderness. Or could it be that I am leaving words to mark a path someone else can follow? Yet another idea, and maybe one more true to form, is that I leave a wordy trail so I do or don’t go along the same path that I’ve already wandered.

Casually as Lamott’s words may fall, they never fail to bring a guffaw that echoes through some void in my psyche, and I recognize the thought within the words and am reminded that those are my thoughts, but my mind had not shaped the words into a language that made sense and then the logic hits me upside the head. It’s as if the proverbial tree fell in the forest but this one fell on my head, and I heard it.

Lamott’s humor spurring me on, I laugh along the way as she drops snippets of wisdom that provide mercy as I stumble along.

This entry was posted on June 14, 2016, in Reading.

Some Favorite Books

This list will grow as I continue to read, recall, and rethink the many books that have impacted, inspired, humored, and/or caused me to reflect on my reflection and that of the world. Feel free to share some ideas for and thoughts about books.

Book List of Essential Reading
(In no particular order)

Anne Morrow Lindberg – Gift From the Sea

Harper Lee – To Kill a Mockingbird

Aldo Leopold – A Sand County Almanac

Leslie Marmon Silko – Ceremony

Harriet Beecher Stowe – Uncle Tom’s Cabin

Toni Morrison – Beloved
The Nobel Lecture, 1993

John G. Neihardt – Black Elk Speaks

Lewis Carroll – Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland & Through the Looking Glass
(The annotated version is great)

Zora Neale Hurston – Their Eyes Were Watching God

Willa Cather – My Antonia

Jack Kerouac – On The Road

Farley Mowatt – The Desperate People (out of print-find it)

Timothy Egan – The Worst Hard Time

J.R.R. Tolkien – The Hobbit

Scott Russell Sanders – Hunting For Hope: A Father’s Journeys

Sharing thoughts on David Sedaris’

David Sedaris’ book Let’s Explore Diabetes with Owls: Essays, etc. came out in 2013 and I immediately devoured it developing a near fatal case of owl diabetes which is why my thoughts on one of the essays in this exploratory book are emerging a year to the month of publication.

In the essay “Day In, Day Out”, Sedaris questions why on September 5, 1977 he “…would start keeping a diary…” (226). I can’t pinpoint the exact date when my own diary keeping began, but I do know that it began upon the order of my divorce attorney who told me to write down everything, every conversation, incident, encounter however small it seemed. Accordingly I filled three yellow legal pads full of drama and chaos, and after the divorce was finalized and I had moved from Indiana to Florida my obsessive recording of my life continued. My diary’s appearance changed over the years from the ugly legal pads to spiral notebooks, to a wide variety of pretty notebooks actually designed for the purpose of writing in. As the outward appearance of these diaries became fancier, they could not hide that the drama that had inspired their beginnings had dissipated over the years to droll, routine observations that will probably never find their way into the archives of a famous University library when upon my demise they are discovered and I posthumously become the unsung author of the week, or more appropriately, weak. I pity the poor researcher who has to read that for the last 28 years nothing happened and I’m tired and going to bed.

I admire Sedaris for having the courage to try to read the six diaries that recount his encounters with crystal meth and in doing so is reminded “… that not all change is evolutionary…” as he, now older but not necessarily wiser, grew “…from the twenty-five-year-old who got stoned and accidentally peed on his friend Katherine’s kitten to the thirty-five-year-old who got drunk and peed in the sandbox at his old elementary school. An Accident? Really? And his sister Amy certainly should have, as he recalls she did, questioned his act by her incredulous “Don’t you realize that children have to pee in there?” (229).

My temerity has not given me the balls, well that’s genetic as well, to read any of the diaries that are repositories of my life as a sober-but not sane or particularly wise-person, but some quirk of mind has caused me to remember everything I have done from childhood to finding sobriety at the ripe old age of thirty-four. Given that these diaries account only for my life in sobriety and little about peeing in odd places, it seems odd that I can’t remember these subsequent years at all. So reading about the places Sedaris has peed brought to mind the book by Dr. Seuss Oh, the Places You’ll GO! Dr. Seuss would no doubt disapprove of my obvious connotation when I consider commandeering his title for my own little volume on the places I’ve peed, and it is with all due respect to him and not meant to disparage him in any way that if, in fact, the plans for this book ever flow I would use a slight adaptation to OH OH! The Places I’ve Peed!

Peeing on a kitten reminds me of Rabelais’ Gargantua who wiped his breech with a March-cat although her sharp claws did scratch all his “perinee”. I admit though that peeing on a cat might be easier than wiping ones bum with a cat, and it would certainly be easier for a guy like Sedaris to take aim at a kitten in motion, for in my case peeing on an active kitten may put me in the same pain as Gargantua. Though had the occasion arisen, I would have had no problem peeing on a sleeping kitty which would be a bit easier on the pussy. But for the places I’ve peed, I’d have to say that a sandbox is a bit lightweight. New York City’s Central Park took the place of a sandbox as I found myself in a crowd of concert-goers on their way to see Charlie Daniels. A bush just off the beaten path partially hidden from the park-side seemed an appropriate relief station but as I exposed my white bottom and proceeded to pee I realized on the other side of the bush the throng of pedestrians on the sidewalk had an unobscured view of my own personal moon, though this was probably nothing new to New Yorkers.

Other places I’ve peed include a comfort station conveniently located smack dab in the middle of Florida Avenue, NW just off DuPont circle in Washington DC where my plans to paint the town red ended in only a yellow puddle.

A less trafficked place to pee is usually located off a main thoroughfare, but of all the places I’ve peed the side pocket of a pool table in a crowded bar may have been the one where I really left my mark. I could say those were all accidents but truth-be-told they were all intentional acts displaying my feelings toward the location, establishment, or people on who’s territory I peed. There are no diaries of those times, just moments internalized eternally-or rather externally-in my memory. These days I write my diaries in ink, but those pre-diary years consisted of a more organic medium, enhanced as it was by a variety of substances.

My idea for the book entitled OH OH! The Places I’ve Peed may not land on the New York Times best seller list, but it is thanks to David Sedaris and his wonderfully funny and reflective collection of essays, etc. in Let’s Explore Diabetes with Owls that leads me to urinalysize my own peeing history and resolve to try to read my own 29 years of old diaries. Hopefully the cat hasn’t peed on them.

Reading

What a thrill to walk into a bookstore and see a new title from a favorite author and, though somewhat less thrilling, is the anticipatory excitement of a website announcement of an upcoming release date. Each new book by Ivan Doig provides me with an eagerness to rush home and crack open the book to enter what is always a captivating journey through the pages.

My early introduction to the western lands seen through the eyes of young Jick McCaskill in English Creek made me feel like I knew this young man, and the names of the characters and places in and around English Creek, Montana certainly add color to the palate of Doig’s storytelling prowess.

His most recent book, Sweet Thunder, follows Morrie Morgan, a character who makes a return from Doig’s previous novels, as he comes back to Butte, Montana with his wife. Set in the 1920’s, with the backdrop of the copper mining industry, the story seems to preface the same type of ecological damage and poor conditions for workers that are seen in many mining and manufacturing operations today. Conflict in the novel centers in part on the money grabbing greed of industry executives and corrupt political influence, and as is typical with Doig’s writing the vividness of the characters, situations and settings create a sense of the reader being present at the time.

In Doig’s Morrie, I find a character that at times I don’t even like, yet I am also hopeful for him to find success in the many circumstances that he encounters. That Doig can illicit a reaction in me, so that I can dislike a character yet feel compelled to keep reading and root for a positive outcome for Morrie and his wide variety of companions, is a tribute to Doig’s ability to develop a tale that the reader becomes a part of.

Reading Sweet Thunder recreated the same sensation that I’ve discovered anew with all of Doig’s books, that of being so drawn in by the connections between the characters and the situations that I become as invested in the outcome as the characters appear to be.